Tuesday, September 23, 2008

!!!OMNISENT TUESDAY...KEEPING YOU IN THE KNOW!!!

Good Day! How are you doing? I hope that you are absolutely fabulous on this oh so good Tuesday. By know you should know that Tuesdays here on MC is just a little different because it’s all about keeping you in the know…and that means it’s Omniscient Tuesday on this 23rd of September 2008…as a result I hope and trust that so far you’re morning has been completely fabulous or just plain fantastic…

Moving onto today’s show we had all the usuals such as you’re Word of the Day, your SA Q&A, you’re Tip of the Day, Job Shop and Information Guide.

We also had interview with:

* Tony Schreiber from the BKM also known as Bergvliet, Kreupelbosch and Meadowridge neighbourhood watch and he spoke to us about a DVD to help others set up their very own neighbourhood watch in their area.

* We also spoke to Zahira Kamdar from Tibb and she spoke us about Unani Tibb which is one of the oldest medical systems used so we’ll be finding out just a little more.

* We wrapped up our series of interview with a interview by John Le Roux from the Bellville Night Shelter and he spoke to us about fake donation collectors – people collecting money on behalf of those in the shelter and using to for their own benefit.

Word of the Day:

ERUDITE - having or showing knowledge or learning

Trivial Question:

Q: How many medals did the South African Paralympic team win in the 2008 Beijing Olympics?
A: 30

Did You Knows:

On average, you breathe 23,000 times a day…Here another fascinating fact for your FYI… A full moon is nine times brighter than a half moon.

Tip of the Day:

I’ve got your tips on ways to have a healthy relationship… There are reliable tools that can be used to create a healthy relationship, many of which have not been taught in our culture. If you want to have a really healthy relationship, follow these simple guidelines...

1. Do not expect anyone to be responsible for your happiness. Accept yourself. Respect yourself. Love yourself first. Take good care of yourself. If you really want, you CAN always find something to do that makes you feel good about yourself right now.

2. Make and keep clear agreements. Respect the difference between yourself and your partner. Don't expect he or she agrees with you on everything. Reach mutual agreement or plan, and then commit to it.

3. Use communication to establish a common ground to understand different points of view and to create a mutual, collaborative agreement or plan. You can either choose to be right, or you can have a successful relationship.

4. Approach your relationship as a learning experience. Each one has important information for you to learn. For example, do you often feel 'bossed' around in your relationship, or do you feel powerless?

5. Tell the unarguable truth. Be truthful to yourself and your partner if you want true love. Many people are taught to lie to protect someone's feelings, either their own or those of their partner. Lies create disconnection between you and your relationship, even if your partner never finds out about it.

6. Do not do anything for your partner if it comes with an expectation of reciprocation. The things you do for your partner must always be done because you chose to do them and you wanted to do them. Do not hold your “good deeds” over their head at a later time. Keeping score in a relationship will never work: a person is less likely to notice and value all the contributions of their partner as much as their own.

7. Forgive one another. Forgiveness is a decision of letting go the past and focusing on the present. It's about taking control of your current situation.

8. Review your expectations. Try to be as clear as you can about any expectations - including acceptable and unacceptable behaviour and attitudes, especially attitudes towards money. Make sure you don't expect your partner to fulfil every need in your life.

9. Be Responsible. Here's a new definition: Responsible means that you have the ability to respond. Respond to the real problem, to your true needs. It does not mean you are to blame. There is tremendous power in claiming your creation.

10. Appreciate yourself and your partner. In the midst of an argument, it can be difficult to find something to appreciate. Start by generating appreciation in moments of non-stress, and that way when you need to be able to do it during a stressful conversation, it will be easier.

11. Admit your mistakes and say sorry. Right after a misunderstanding or argument, tell your partner to give you some time to think of the wrong and right things that you and he/she did.

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Quote of the Day:

Burton Hills - Happiness is not a destination. It is a method of life

It’s time for me to love and leave you. You must have oh so super Tuesday. Let’s chat again tomorrow…Much Love…Peace.

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