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Good Day! How are you doing? I hope that you are absolutely fabulous on this oh so good Wednesday. Now perhaps you didn’t know or maybe you already new, but for those who didn’t today of course is the 15th of October 2008 and it is also the 288th day of the year…There are 77 days remaining until the end of the year…I hope that you are feeling fantastic and oh so wonderful on this Wednesday morning… If it is your birthday today then happy birthday… Now in MC Chat I want to know from you have you ever had to deal with friends or family that just come over way to much…Now earlier I in MC Chat I spoke about dealing with friends or family that just come over way to much…Well I do have things to help you the next time you find yourself in that situation…
1. Try talking to them. If they know how you feel, maybe they'll back up a bit.
2. Get involved in other things. It's likely that they only do that because you'realways free. If you're busy more often, they'll see that you have your own life, and they can't always be with you.
3. Block their number. If they can't call you, they'll eventually give up.
4. Introduce them to other people.
Word of the Day:
PREEPON - To reschedule an event to an earlier time
Trivial Question:
Q: Name the traditional baked sweet pastry pie made of a milk filling?
A: Milktart
Did You Knows:
It is impossible to sneeze with your eyes open…Here’s another interesting fact… An onion, apple and potato all have the same taste. The differences in flavour are caused by their smell
We had interviews with:
Lauren Beukes an award winning journalist, so she joined me on the line to chat about her career and the joys, the highs and lows also touching on being a women and what it means to her in society today.
We also spoke to FAMSA Family and Marriage Association of South Af
rica councilor Daleen van Staden and she’ll talk to us about women and marriage and marriage problems.
On the same topic we also featured an interview with Reuben Pillay a psychologist and he spoke to us about men and marriage and marriage problems.
Tip of the Day:
None the less its time for your Tip of the Day and we talking about ways to deal with a jealous friend… If you have a jealous friend who's making life difficult for you, here's how to fend off their negative attitude without ruining the friendship…Here are those tips…
1. Know the difference between jealousy and honesty. What might seem like a deliberate attempt to put you down might actually be your friend giving you constructive criticism.
2. Put yourself in your friend's shoes and understand the reasons behind his or her feelings. Jealousy often stems from insecurity.
3. Get a second opinion. If your friend is making comments that seem to stem from jealousy, have someone else around who can look at the situation objectively. If they're not present, seek their opinion afterwards.
4. Show a positive attitude to let the jealous friend know that they have no power over you and that you are very confident about yourself. If you are not confident to begin with, then Build Self Confidence.
5. Help your friend raise their self-esteem and build a life that they can be proud of instead of looking enviously at yours. Empowering them is a good way to diffuse their jealousy, but only do this for those people you feel are worthy of your time and energy.
6. Offer encouragement and praise when something goes right for your friend, but whatever you do, don't hide your happiness for what is going right in your life. A true friend supports at all times and should be happy for your accomplishments.
7. Tell the friend how pathetic they are for acting like a child. Ask them to get some well needed therapy. Friends shouldn't need to be treated like babies and if this is what your friend expects, it is time for some tough love.
Quote of the Day:
Thomas Jefferson - How much pain have cost us the evils that have never happened
It’s time for me to love and leave you. You must have oh so super Wednesday. Let’s chat again tomorrow…Much Love…Peace.
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